Take control of the situation by removing the medium that is causing the problem in the first place.the cell phone. To the OP.just remember, being a parent and being a friend to your kid are 2 different things. Take some control, be a parent, and control your children. All your really doing is letting her dictate what will and will not happen.
Take away the phone completely and lock her life down. Your her parents, which means that you have the control, what you are doing is allowing your daughter to have control. If all we can get are the usage records, can we get records from beyond the year that's online?
Whats the real story w/ t-mobile? can we get the actual messages? what should we be asking for when we get our records subpoenaed? do you have any suggestions? Some people say they aren't stored due to privacy reasons & other people say they are archived for 18 months. there is 1 years worth online.Ĭan we get the actual texts? I searched and find conflicting information. We were told that we'd have to have the records subpoenaed (which we have no problem doing) but they said all we will get are the usage records which we already have from logging into their website. We contacted T-Mobile to try and get a transcript of the previous texts. we've already decided that this invasion of privacy is worth it to us. please don't judge us on whether it's right to do or not. We plan on setting up an app that stores the text messages locally for the future so we can spy on her a little and see who shes talking to & what they are saying. She borrows my wifes G1 phone from time to time and we've noticed lots of texts messages to numbers we don't know which have made us suspicious. She's fallen into a bad crowd and you get the idea. My wife & I are worried about our daughter.